Shelby Stidham

Update to my previous post…

Okay… from when I wrote earlier today when I was really upset… things got worse. The person I was speaking of in my blog this morning got into a heated, dramatic, retarded phone argument with my fiance. You know, until now, I never thought Matt’s advice to “let it go” and to just relax because “who cares” was any good. But after getting pissed off and crying for an hour I realized I’d much rather use energy doing anything but that. So I took his advice and I while deep down I still sort of care, outwardly I just don’t. And guess what? It’s nice to finally not care.

Here’s what I wish, though. In life, I wish that people would seriously just treat other people the way that they want to be treated. I feel like I try and do that as much as I can but sometimes when people are bossy and pushy and don’t get the hint… it’s hard. But that’s what I wish: for people to realize everything isn’t always about them and that there is more to life than being the focus of attention all the time!